I Talk to My Spirit Baby
For anyone who has struggled to conceive, experienced recurring losses, or carried the heartbreak of late-term pregnancy loss, this is for you. This is for the women who are trying with their whole hearts, and for whatever reason, pregnancy just isn’t happening yet. This is for the women who pray, cry, wait, question, hope, and somehow still keep going.
And this is my truth:
I talk to my spirit baby. All the time. Sometimes daily. Sometimes weekly. Sometimes only in the quietest moments when the world finally stops spinning.
I don’t talk about this openly because people might think I’m silly, delusional, or "a bit too spiritual." But the thing is… women do this more than we realise. Even the ones who would never describe themselves as spiritual. We connect to our future children in all these tiny, private, sacred ways — often without even noticing.
Some of us do it in bed before we fall asleep. Some of us do it in the car when we’re driving to work. Some of us do it in the waiting room at the doctor’s office. Some of us do it while holding a pregnancy test, whispering, “Please be positive. Please come now. Please let this be the month.”
Whether we realize it or not, we speak to them.
And I’ve learned that this connection, this communication, does something powerful.
The Portal That Opens When You Speak to Your Spirit Baby
When you talk to your spirit baby, a portal opens between you and the soul that is waiting to be born. It’s subtle, invisible, but deeply real. Your intention, your energy, and your vibration become a beacon.
If you speak from fear, or from that aching belief of, “It’s not happening for me,” the timeline can feel further away.
But when you speak from trust, even if you’re tired… Even if you’re hurting… Even if you’re not sure how or when… And you say, “Even if it’s not this month, I know you’re coming. I feel you.”
That’s when the connection strengthens. That’s when the invisible string between you and your child tightens. That’s when the portal becomes clearer.
It’s not manifestation in the simple “think it, feel it, become it” sense. Manifestation, to me, is destiny + timing + energy + intention + intuition + alignment. If manifestation was as simple as thinking and feeling, we’d all be millionaires, we’d all have our babies, and we’d all be living our dream lives.
But spirit babies operate on something deeper — soul timing.
My Own Spirit Baby Story
I’ve always felt my spirit baby. Not just as a concept… but as a real soul. And I’ve always known she was a girl.
I don’t know how I knew, but I just did. I’ve always pictured what she looks like. I always saw a girl who looked like me. Same energy. Same features. Same spark. And the strangest thing is that psychics over the years- without me even mentioning fertility or trying to conceive - have told me the same thing.
They’d say things like: “You’re going to be a mother later in life.” “Your daughter is going to be very special, just like you.”
They didn’t know who I was. They didn’t know what I did. They didn’t know anything about my journey.
But they all said the same thing. And I always felt the same thing.
So I’ve always had a very special connection with her… long before she becomes physical.
I fell pregnant in my 20s and 30s, but deep down… I knew it wasn’t it. I didn’t want to admit that to myself at the time, but part of me knew the timing wasn’t aligned. A part of me always felt that I’d become a mother in my 40s. And when things went down hill with my pregnancies…..it made me realize that you couldn’t escape fate no matter what.
And here I am, 40 years old. And I feel her closer than ever.
I’ve always said that April is significant — I’ve mentioned it on podcasts and posts without knowing why. But now… the energy feels stronger, clearer, and more aligned than it has ever felt before.
Who knows what will happen?
But what I do know is that she’s closer.
And I feel her.
An Exercise to Strengthen Your Spirit Baby Connection
If you want to deepen your connection with your own spirit baby, try this:
As often as you want, sit with yourself and picture your baby.
What do they look like?
Do they have straight hair? Curly hair?
Light or dark eyes?
Warm skin?
A soft giggle?
A bold personality?
A calm presence?
Imagine them as a toddler. Imagine them as a three-year-old running around the house. Imagine what you would do with them in your spare time: parks, picnics, cuddles, painting, cooking, bedtime stories.
Imagine what your life looks like with them in it.
Do you work? Do you take time off? Do you feel closer to your family, or create your own small sacred bubble?
Let yourself dream without limits, without guilt, without shame.
Then write it down. Keep a journal just for this. And return to it weekly, monthly, whenever your heart calls.
The more you do this, the more connected you will feel. The more your energy lines up with the timeline that is meant for you.
And Finally…
Here is the message I want you to take with you:
Your baby is not late. Your baby is arriving in perfect soul timing.
What is meant for you is already seeking you.
Trust your connection. Trust your intuition. Trust your timeline.
I’ll be talking about this more on the podcast very soon and I would love to share some of the ways you stay connected to your Spirit baby. You can email me or message me on Instagram with your special connection.